1 Kajilkree

This I Believe Essay Everything Happens For A Reason

1803 illustration of the two monkeys chasing their lovers. Candide shoots the monkeys, thinking they are attacking the women. HT- Wiki

The saying, “Everything happens for a reason” is commonly heard in the USA and obviously implies that things happen for a “good” reason.  Thus a variant is:  “all things work for the best”.  Inspiring this post is an interview with Drew Brees, the quarterback for the Superbowl’s 2010 victorious New Orleans Saints.  This interview was for a Christian station where Brees repeatedly evangelizes listeners that “all things works for the best” and that “everything happens for a reason”.   To illustrate this truth, he gives an example how a prior injury which, at the time he felt was the worse thing that could have happened to his career, instead ironically resulted with him being the quarterback for the victorious New Orleans Saints — you could almost hear the crowds roar has he gave his testimony in the video.  His god had it all planned.  A simple googling will find this video all over Christian sites — a sport celebrity selling their Jesus who will grant believers success in life just like Drew Brees.  This is a stepped-down version of the prosperity gospel.  But it is not just Christians who spout this mantra.  A simple googling for “Everything happens for a reason” will yield thousands of Christian, Muslim and New Age websites touting this apparent deep wisdom.



This ridiculously false idea has been attacked for centuries.  Voltaire (1694-1778), a philosopher and religious critic, took it to task in his superb short story, “Candide” (highly recommended).  Voltaire’s stark, harsh and often racy sarcasm attacks the philosophy of Leibniz (1646 – 1716, inventor of Calculus and foil for Kant).  Leibniz believed in an omnipotent, all-good, intervening God and to explain how such horrible suffering could exists in God’s world, Leibniz created his theory that “This is the best of all possible worlds”.   Voltaire disputes this Candide where Pangloss, Candide’s optimistic teacher, chants over and over “all is for the best in the best of all possible worlds” while Candide leads an outrageous life illustrating that it is patently false.

Leibniz was Christian and was trying to support his faith in the Age of Enlightenment (1700s).  But this idea had been around for a long time.  This is the major Christian Bible verse used to support this view.

We know that all things work together for good* for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose.
–Romans 8:28 (NRSV)

A Dangerous Meme

Not all religious people agree with this idea.  I am pleased to find that some Muslims, Jews and Christians understand that such a superficial understanding is mistaken.  Pastor Larry Osborne has written a book “10 Dumb Things that Smart Christians Believe” where “Everything happens for a reason” is listed right along with:

  • Faith can fix anything
  • God brings good luck
  • Forgiveness means forgetting
  • A godly home guarantees good kids

I have not read Pastor Osborne’s book and don’t know how he deals with Romans 8, but I wanted to illustrate that the notion of a puppet-master god manipulating the world is not necessarily a universal Christian idea.   Of course, my position rejects it too but only because I no longer believe in an omnipotent, all-powerful, all-good, intervening deity posited by theists.  I don’t view the world as having gods or spirits controlling the fate of humans, squirrels, amoeba or rocks.  And likewise, all things are certainly not for the best.  This world does not have a master plan, yet alone a puppet master guiding all events to some wonderful, albeit mysterious, end.

Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse

But here we are, Atheists and a few Christians agree that this meme is repulsive.  We both see this as a dangerous idea.  But how could such a dangerous, mistaken idea be so widespread?  As a quick diversion, let me mention a recent Behavior and Brain Sciences Journal issue dedicated to discussing “misbelief”.   Philosopher Daniel Dennett (one of the New Atheist’s 4 horsemen) has an article in the issue entitled “The Evolution of Misbelief” and several other authors respond to his theory.  I disagree with Dennett, as does Konrad Talmont-Kaminski who I have started reading today.  Konrad runs an educational atheist site called “Just Another Deisidaimon” where, like me, he plainly confesses that he is superstitious (a “deisidaimon“).

Though I judge this meme as a misbelief,  sometimes in casual or polite conversation I judge it a little more generously.  So when my superstitious acquaintance says, “Well, I believe everything happens for a reason.”  I may just tell myself they mean: “I try not to let bad things get me down and look for something good to be gained”.   This generous translation just reinterprets them saying something less superstitious like “When the world throws lemons at you, make lemonade.”

--Rabbi Akiva ben Yosef-- ---Head of All Sages--- (click to read more)

Akiva ben Yossef

As I said, these idea of “everything happening for a reason” is found in many cultures and religions — it is a pervasive human meme.   I heard it time and time again as an explanation for karma when I lived in Hindu and Buddhist countries.  Below is a famous story from the Jewish Talmud by Akiva ben Yossef (50-135 CE,  a famous Jewish rabbi).  Akiva is referred to in the Talmud as “Rosh la-Chachomim” (Head of all the Sages) and is considered by many to be one of the earliest founders of rabbinical Judaism.  The story goes like this:

Once, being unable to find any sleeping accommodation in a certain city, he was compelled to pass the night outside its walls. Without a murmur he resigned himself to this hardship; and even when a lion devoured his donkey, and a cat killed the rooster whose crowing was to herald the dawn to him, and the wind extinguished his candle, the only remark he made was, “All that God does is for the good.” When morning dawned he learned how true his words were. A band of robbers had fallen upon the city and carried its inhabitants into captivity, but he had escaped because his abiding place had not been noticed in the darkness, and neither beast nor fowl had betrayed him (Ber. 60b).

A Misbelief’s Pros and Cons

So, what does this meme offer people in spite of its obvious mistaken cognitive notions?  What function does it offer people while sacrificing propositional truth?  Remember, people are willing to sacrifice reason if they feel the gain is worth it.    Below I undertake an exercise to see if I can list the pros and cons of embracing this meme.  You can see that it depends on the way one uses the meme as to the affect it can have on you.

Offers optimism through hard times.Encourages passivity in hard times, waiting for the good to happen.
Nurtures humility that one’s success is not of one’s own doing.Offers pride that due to a belief in God, “the Good” is secured for you.  Or worse, it implies that when bad things happens to unbelievers, it allows the believer to assume they deserve it.
Helps people understand that the world is complex and that just because they can’t see hope, doesn’t mean it isn’t waiting.Makes the world too simple and dismisses the complexity of events.  Dismisses that for many good things may not occur in this life that even begin off-setting the suffering they undergo.
Used to reinforce social bonding of religious groupsSets up an Us. vs. Them mentality

The most important con for atheists is probably that this platitude encourages superstitious, irrational thinking.  But look at all the pros.  My question:  Since this meme offers so much to believers, is there something the atheist can offer to offset these benefits so that the believer can have a true belief which has comparable benefits?

Liezi 列子 500s BCE

The Taoist Farmer Parable

I have always enjoyed this parable as my counter to the common “Everything works for the best” mantra.  This is a Taoist parable reportedly told by Master Lie (Lie Yukou) in the 500s BCE.   The Taoist farmer is surrounded by neighbors who are swayed easily by any condition in life but he chooses to take things in pace, neither overly optimistic nor pessimistic– he abides in the Tao.  Here is the story:

A man who lived on the northern frontier of China was skilled in interpreting events. One day, for no reason, his horse ran away to the nomads across the border. Everyone tried to console him, but his father said, “What makes you so sure this isn’t a blessing?” Some months later his horse returned, bringing a splendid nomad stallion. Everyone congratulated him, but his father said, “What makes you so sure this isn’t a disaster?” Their household was richer by a fine horse, which his son loved to ride. One day he fell and broke his hip. Everyone tried to console him, but his father said, “What makes you so sure this isn’t a blessing?”

A year later the nomads came in force across the border, and every able-bodied man took his bow and went into battle. The Chinese frontiersmen lost nine of every ten men. Only because the son was lame did the father and son survive to take care of each other. Truly, blessing turns to disaster, and disaster to blessing: the changes have no end, nor can the mystery be fathomed.

— from Lieze (500 BCE)
As told by Ellen J. Langer, in” The Power of Mindful Learning” (1997).

This simple Taoist reply to misfortune reminds me of the infamous, humorous list of religious stereotypical replies to the question of “Why do bad things happen?”  Below I list a few:

Taoists & BuddhistsShit happens.
PresbyterianThis shit was bound to happen.
CatholicIf shit happens, you deserve it.
Conservative ProtestantLet this shit happen to someone else.
JewWhy does shit always happen to us?
MormonShit’s going to happen.  Stockpile !
AtheistNo shit !


Questions for Readers:

  • What are common ideas which you feel are wrong but can be used well?
  • What are some of your favorite atheist-friend fables?
  • How do you translate “Everything happens for a reason” in your mind?

Do you look back at your life and think that the important things that have happened to you, both good and bad, happened for some bigger reason — whether because God had a plan for you, or because what happened was somehow fate?

In “Does Everything Happen for a Reason?” Konika Banerjee and Paul Bloom explore this belief.

The article begins:

On April 15, 2013, James Costello was cheering on a friend near the finish line at the Boston Marathon when the bombs exploded, severely burning his arms and legs and sending shrapnel into his flesh. During the months of surgery and rehabilitation that followed, Mr. Costello developed a relationship with one of his nurses, Krista D’Agostino, and they soon became engaged. Mr. Costello posted a picture of the ring on Facebook. “I now realize why I was involved in the tragedy,” he wrote. “It was to meet my best friend, and the love of my life.”

Mr. Costello is not alone in finding meaning in life events. People regularly do so for both terrible incidents, such as being injured in an explosion, and positive ones, like being cured of a serious disease. As the phrase goes, everything happens for a reason.

Where does this belief come from? One theory is that it reflects religious teachings — we think that events have meaning because we believe in a God that plans for us, sends us messages, rewards the good and punishes the bad.

But research from the Yale Mind and Development Lab, where we work, suggests that this can’t be the whole story. In one series of studies, recently published in the journal Cognition, we asked people to reflect on significant events from their own lives, such as graduations, the births of children, falling in love, the deaths of loved ones and serious illnesses. Unsurprisingly, a majority of religious believers said they thought that these events happened for a reason and that they had been purposefully designed (presumably by God). But many atheists did so as well, and a majority of atheists in a related study also said that they believed in fate — defined as the view that life events happen for a reason and that there is an underlying order to life that determines how events turn out.

Students: Read the entire article, then tell us …

–Do you believe that things happen for a reason? If so, what examples from your own life or lives of others can you give?

–If you don’t believe it, why not?

–Why, according to this article, do even atheists often believe events have underlying purposes? What psychological purpose does this belief serve for humans?

–Do you agree with the authors that there can be danger in believing everything happens for a reason?

–Do you agree with the authors that it is not “karma” that punishes the bad and rewards the good, but that, instead “the events of human life unfold in a fair and just manner only when individuals and society work hard to make this happen”? Why or why not?

Students 13 and older are invited to comment below. Please use only your first name. For privacy policy reasons, we will not publish student comments that include a last name.

Questions about issues in the news for students 13 and older.

Leave a Comment


Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *